Saturday, 28 January 2017

For any marriage to succeed, for your marriage to fulfill the agenda of heaven even in this terrible world, fervent prayer is a must, if you have not been engaging in serious prayers in your family, you just have to start today. You may ask me , What is PRAYER? [an English dictionary] explains prayers as:- • A practice of communication with one’s God. • It is the act of praying. • The specific words or method used for praying. • A request. • A petition. Others define prayer as:- • Merriam –Webster defines prayer as- “to speak to God especially in order to give thanks or to ask for something” • – “ a spiritual communication with God or an object of worship, as in supplication, thanksgiving, adoration, or confession” • Wikipedia – “prayer is invocation or act that seeks to activate a rapport with an object ...” • – “A prayer is something you say to a god or deity. Your prayer can be silent words of thanks or a plea for help that’s spoken out loud” In my own view, I define prayers in the following ways:- 1. Prayer is the art of soul been lost in God in adoration, praise and worship. 2. Prayer is the weapon in time of conflict. 3. It is a defense in the moment of peril. 4. Prayer is the wealth of poverty. 5. Prayer is the channel of God’s grace. 6. It is the key to open the morning. 7. It is insisting that the will of God is done. 8. Prayer is the strength of weakness. 9. Prayer is a sure weapon to defeat Satan. 10. Prayer is commanding the heavens to favour you. 11. Prayer is the light to thick darkness. 12. It the fellowship with God. 13. Prayer is a spiritual act that one needs to make impart in life. 14. It is the act of communicating in the spiritual world. 15. It is barricading your life against wickedness. 16. It is the act of seeking for divine intervention over any situation. 17. Prayer is the back bone of any believer. 18. It is knocking of heaven for rain of abundance. 19. Prayer is the key to open every difficult spiritual door. 20. Prayer is conversation with God almighty.

Thursday, 5 January 2017

Menopause had been described as adolescence in reverse by someone. Menopause is a natural and normal part of the life’s processes. Most women pass through this phase of life, any woman entering the middle years of life will begin to have fluctuating hormones to battle with, some today did not still believe about the reality of menopause. This period is an important time in life, because the happiness of the remaining one third of life depends on how this period is handed. Good knowledge of this subject matter is one of the most important ingredients to this time of life, usually, from mid forty year, child bearing years is becoming over and the body according to the design of God begins to change, there is nothing to fear, it is just a passing phase of life, though it may last a few years, some women may more severe experience than normal symptoms. The following are some the things women should expect during menopause. • Inability to sleep well. • Occasional night sweat. • Decrease in energy. • Tingling feeling in the feet and hands. • Menstrual flow may change over some years, decreasing in days till finally stopped. • Weight gain without additional food intake. • Occasional itching and feeling of heat in certain portion of the body. • Increased nervousness and feeling of depression for no reason. • You may experience back ache. • There is noticeable tint of grey in the hair. • Muscle begins to lose their tones and body alignment is affected. • There will be good or bad one emotionally. • There are wrinkles in the corner of the eyes. • There will be fluctuating feelings. • There may be loss of calcium. Handling menopause. • Prepare well before it starts, by having good education or knowledge of this situation. • Face the challenge boldly. • Be positive. • Understand that menopause is not a sickness. • Maintain good hygiene. • Eat good food. • Do regular exercise. • Eat balance diet. • Take active and busy. • Improve your calcium intake.

Monday, 2 January 2017

It is a wonderful thing to see the New Year, we thank God we are not candidate of the grave. This is a new year, l recommends we take this year more serious most especially, on our marriage, a lot of prayer is required to maintain and sustain peace in our marriage this year. There are twelve[12] series of this prayers, pray them and believe God to grant you answers to these prayers and also grant grant you all your heart desires. Prayer section. 1. Lord l thank you for bringing me and my family to this New Year, in Jesus name. 2. Lord direct and instruct me and my family throughout this year, in Jesus name. 3. By your power that cannot be disgraced, we shall experience the supernatural abundance of heaven in my family this year, in the name of Jesus. 4. Sickness and diseases shall be far from my family this year, in Jesus name. 5. I reject every form of accident for any member of my family this year, in Jesus name. 6. Oh heaven, be interested in my life and family this year, in Jesus name. 7. My life and marriage shall bring honor to the name of the Lord, this year in Jesus name. 8. In my family this year, l shall not weep nor bite our fingers in sorrow, in Jesus name. 9. We shall enjoy protective power of God in my family in Jesus name. 10. Power of darkness shall not prevail over us in Jesus name. 11. The cord of love from God will bound us together, this year in my family, in the name of Jesus. 12. None of my family member shall go to hell fire, in Jesus name.
I welcome you and your family to this special year in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. I recommend the following tips that will help your marriage this year. 1. Pray together and pray for each other fervently in every situation. 2. Forgive and be ready to forgive even before you are offended. 3. Increase your affection for your spouse. 4. Be kind to her/him throughout this year. 5. Never any third party in the affair of your marriage. 6. Study the bible together. 7. Carry each other burden. 8. Encourage each other when the going becomes tough. 9. Be ready to adjust your life before seeking adjustment from your spouse. 10. Believe in the dream of your partner and support him/her. 11. Be a man and woman of faith. 12. Encourage each other to useful in the hand of God this year.

Tuesday, 20 December 2016

One of the reasons for establishing marriage by God is to be blessing to one’s spouse, the community and the people we have contact with. It can be unfortunate if any marriage could not perform this assignment because internal problem rocking such home. A deliverer must deliver himself/herself first, before helping others. A man will enjoy his life if he is having the support of his wife, the contrary can be frustrating and affect everything in such a home. There are several ways to turn your wife against you, l want to give you ten [10] of them. 1. She will turn her back against you if you always caring for your family and neglecting her. 2. When it is evident that you do not love her. 3. She will turn her back against you if you hate her parent and her families. 4. You will turn her against you if you maltreat , abuse and beat her 5. She will not support you, if she found out that you are having sexual affair with her friends or her family members. 6. When you don’t value her any more, she will hate you. 7. She will regret marrying you, if you don’t believe and support her dreams in life. 8. You will succeed in turning your wife against yourself if you do not respect her before her friends, your friends, your family members and her family. 9. She will not respect you if you are an un-repented lazy man 10. She will hate you if you hate her children [your children] when not supporting their feeding budget, school fees, clothing, etc.

Saturday, 17 December 2016

Is there any situation in your family that is making you bitter about your home/marriage? Have you been having bad marriage in the past? Maybe you are not enjoying peace in your marriage, what you are experience in your marriage is unstable joy. Have gotten to your wit end in marriage? Is it bareness that is kicking peace away from your marriage? Is your own poverty? Are you experiencing unexplainable sicknesses in your family? Maybe your in-laws are your headache? Are you always bombarded by spirit spouse and you don’t know what to do? No matter the intensity of problems confronting your marriage, the living God can still restore that thing that you are lacking in your marriage. • God can chase away poverty and give you prosperity. • He can turn your bareness to fruitfulness. • He can convert reproach in your family to glory. • God can arrest shame in your marriage and give you fame. • The almighty can wipe off your weeping and inject you with constant and unlimited laughter. • He has the capacity to cage your sorrow and release unto you marriage everlasting joy. • Since he is the originator of marriage, he can overhaul all those things killing your marriage gradually and make you marriage heaven on earth. But, • You need to check your life to know your level of your contribution to the problem in your family. • Believe that God can turn things around for you and your marriage and heal every internal injury you might have sustained in the journey of your marriage. • You just need to forgive your partner completely. • Trust God for everything in your marriage. • Create time for quality prayers in your family, because the family that pray together stay together in peace. PRAYER SECTION. 1. Oh Lord have mercy on me and my marriage. 2. My father, l am sorry for anyway l had contributed to the conflict in my marriage. 3. Let every trouble confronting my marriage expires today, in Jesus name. 4. Father Lord restore peace into my marriage, in Jesus name. 5. My marriage shall receive the favour of God in Jesus name. 6. Give power to forgive my partner always, in Jesus name. 7. Oh God of Elijah arise and put your fresh honey into my marriage, in Jesus name.

Friday, 11 November 2016

Effective communication is one of the major pillars that sustain peace and unity in marriage. Yes, marriage couple are communication but, many of these communications are not effective because, many are not aware of the principles that needs to be followed for communication to be rewarding I homes. The following are some basic principles for effective communication especially in marriage for maximum success. 1. Determine to create time for communication in your marriage. 2. Make up your mind to cooperate with each other. 3. Agree on a convenient time for two of you. 4. Always pray before your discussion. 5. Get rid of anything that can cause distraction. 6. Be sincere with each other when discussing. 7. Be a good listener –try as much as possible not to interrupt your partner when talking. 8. Give hundred per cent attention to your partner. 9. Mind your language when you discussing, most especially when dealing with conflict. 10. Try as much as possible not to use coded words, be clear enough to be understood. 11. Never talk about yourself too much. 12. Do not use bad or abusive language for each other. 13. Avoid senseless argument. 14. Be interested in the discussion. 15. When discussing, maintain constant eye contact with your spouse. 16. Ask question if you don’t understand what your partner is saying before you react. 17. In marital conflict, there is no winner or loser, your discussion is to find lasting peace and not a medal. 18. Accept any of your mistakes and apologise to your mate. 19. Be straight forward in your discussion. 20. Always appreciate yourselves for time spent together.

Sunday, 11 September 2016

Tuesday, 6 September 2016

Lesson from Pastor faith Olumuyiwa

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.

7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.


Your attitude towards your wife is very important and if you want peace for your life in marriage, please look at the following and see how you can practice it. If you do, it will definitely add flavor to your marriage.
●Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
●Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
●Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
●Never compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
●Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex. She owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
●Hide nothing from her. You are now one and she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
●Do not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
●Do not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age. (Eph. 5:29)
●Never shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)
●Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
●All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
●Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
●Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. That’s the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
●Spend time with her to do Bible study and pray. (James 5:16)
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
●Never use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
●Do not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself too. Be a shield around her. (Eph. 5:30)
●Honour her parents and be kind to her siblings. (SOS 8:2)
●Never cease to tell her how much you love her all the days of her life. Women are never tired of hearing that. (Eph. 5:25)
●Grow to be like Christian ,That’s the only way you can be a good and godly husband. (Rom. 8:29) AMEN . Pst. Faith Olumuyiwa.

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